You would think that the most important decision a person has to make is the choice of where to live their life. You would be wrong. One of the most important decision a person has to make is where to live their life. You would be wrong.
I know I’m preaching to the choir here, but it’s hard to find good advice on living your life when you’re so damn busy. It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to realize that if you are always on the go, you will never think about where to live. You have no time to think about the best place to live. You are always on the move. You have no time to think about anything other than moving. You have no time to think about what other people think.
You have to get out of the house and explore. You have to stop being so busy. You have to stop being so damn angry. You have to stop being so damn worried about what other people think. You have to stop being so damn afraid of what other people think. You have to stop being so damn lazy. You have to stop being so damn self-absorbed. You have to stop being so damn selfish. You have to stop being so damn spoiled.
That’s a lot of stuff to say and I wouldn’t even begin to try to cover it all here, but I think I’ve hit on a really good list.
As I said, I think that the list is pretty good too. It covers the major reasons why we’re all so darn self-absorbed; it takes into account how many of us have been screwed over by others and we all try to cover it up when we can; and it also goes into the list of things that we actually need to stop being so damn self-absorbed.
Well, I think thats everything Ive got for you. Thats a lot of stuff to cover. If you have any more questions, let me know. But yeah, this list is pretty damn good.
I can totally understand how someone with a lot of self-awareness can be self-absorbed, but I think that the people who do it don’t really have a choice because they’re just trying to survive. And by “survive” I mean that we don’t even care if other people are self-absorbed, so long as we can continue to exist in that moment.
We all have our “self-awareness” moments on occasion. You know that thing where you’re trying to figure out how to do something and you’ve got it in your head that it’s going to be cool so it’s hard to actually do it? That’s what I mean by self-awareness, you are stuck with your own little ways of being self-absorbed.
There are countless examples of self-awareness in the movie The Wolf of Wall Street.