Many people think that because they have little kids, they are always in control of their own lives. In truth, we are in control of our lives, but that control is often misused. We use our children as our own personal dictators since they are our little versions of ourselves in some ways.
This is a situation that can arise when we have no other choice, but also a situation that we can choose to avoid. Sometimes we can choose to let go and let our children make their own decisions. Sometimes we can choose to let them be young in their minds and let their dreams of becoming a successful adult go by without our involvement. When we do this though, we can be setting up the problem rather than the solution.
In this case we don’t want to choose to let our children make their own decisions, so we need to force them to do so. We want our children to be young in their minds, but we can’t force them. You can’t force someone over to your side that doesn’t want to be forced. Sometimes we can choose to be the parent that lets their kids be young in their minds and allows their dreams of becoming a successful adult to go by without our ever having to be involved.
The problem with this is that we are talking about a child who thinks she is going to be able to do everything that she wants to do. It becomes a game to them. They will do anything to achieve something. If we force them to have their own ideas, it becomes a problem for them. And what if we want to become a successful adult? They will go against everything we say to them, and that will make us feel like we are the bad guy.
I’m not sure what you mean by “chicks on speed mind your own business”, but if you’re implying that an adult should be allowed to do as she pleases, your statement is incorrect. An adult is not a child. And in reality, many people are unable to fully comprehend their own actions. It’s a fact that most people can’t predict what they will do, and they are constantly changing their minds.
I know I’m not the only one who likes to call them immature, but the truth is that adults are incapable of truly understanding their actions. I’ve been one for as long as I can remember. Unfortunately, the term “immature” or “childish” really isn’t something I’ve found to be very helpful.
It is important to remember that the adult mind is not a blank slate, its a limited part of the brain that is constantly adjusting and learning. Being a teenager, I remember being so young and immature and naive. Now I dont think I am immature or childish, but I am certainly aware that I am not my father or mother or anyone else in my life. So I really do feel like I should be doing more to try and understand myself better.
I think I have said this a few times already, but I am still in a stage of my life where I am still relatively new to the world of self-awareness. If the adults in my life didnt get me so confused about myself, I would be more mature, I would understand things better, and I would have a better understanding of myself. But I think that is still not the case.
I had a lot of people who were not as concerned about self-awareness as I was about self-awareness. It was a part of my life that I wanted to be a little more mature, which meant that I was actually more aware of myself.
When I got to this point I was very hesitant to admit or admit that I was on the wrong side of the coin because I was not being honest. I would never have been able to be much more mature, though I have been on this planet for over 20 years.